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NOTE FROM HEALTHY CHALLENGE GUIDE:
So Thanksgivings Day is right around the corner. I know fro myself it is a VERY Hard time even though I am with my family. This holiday is my Granny's favorite holiday next to Christmas. Every year my Granny cooked Thanksgiving dinner. When she passed I took on that tradition and have been cooking thanksgiving dinner for the past 4 years. It is hard for me but on the day of cooking I feel that she is guiding me and with me as I cook. It is somewhat like our time together.
So I totally understand falling off your healthy meal/exercise plan and can get a little depressions. I hope that this edition will help you.
DECEMBER 16, 2019
6 Ways to Feel Happier During the Holidays
Focus on what is important to you. Genuine happiness is not waiting for you under the tree. ...
Reminisce about past good experiences during the holidays. ...
Give someone close to you the gift of experience. ...
Fill your home with Christmas scents and music. ...
If you are going to spend a lot of money, spend it on others.
How to Beat the Holiday Blues
Learn why people get depressed over the holidays and how you can overcome end of the year sadness
Here comes the Thanksgivings, the first holiday to end the year. So what do you do when the world around you is going to the holiday parties, holiday decorating and holiday cooking.
First, recognize that you’re not a Scrooge and you’re most definitely not alone. The “holiday blues” are real and much more common than you think. Second, be kind to yourself. Try not to chastise yourself for what you are and what you’re not feeling. And third, take a few minutes to read about some of the major causes and best remedies for the “holiday blues.”
For people without a significant other, who don’t have family or who live far from family, the holidays can be especially tough. While longing for company, lonely people may isolate even more leaving them feeling even worse.
Resist the temptation to hunker down. Get up and get moving even if it’s only for a series of short excursions to your favorite café or bookstore. The goal is to be around people. Having a brief conversation or simply exchanging smiles lifts your mood says Kenneth Yeager, PhD, clinical director of the Stress, Trauma and Resilience (STAR) Program at Ohio State University’s Wexner Medical Center.
Find new ways to keep yourself occupied so you don’t dwell on your aloneness. Book a tour and see the city you live in through the eyes of enthusiastic visitors suggests psychotherapist and trauma expert Ross Rosenberg of Clinical Care Consultants in Arlington Heights, IL. Just being a part of an animated group can reenergize you. Or volunteer at an animal shelter or somewhere that gets you out of your head while keeping your spirit engaged and uplifted.
Call someone that you think might be feeling like you. “Take a chance,” says Rosenberg. You may find that person is happy to chat or share some time with you. “Let yourself feel the pleasure of connection without the fear of rejection,” Rosenberg adds.
If you’re dealing with the loss of a loved one, the idea of experiencing happiness during the holidays might make you feel guilty or disrespectful to the memory of that person.
We all experience some degree of survivor guilt says Dr. Yeager. But it’s important to not let “expectations about how you should feel dictate how you actually feel,” he says. “Being respectful to those we’ve lost should include memories of good times together. A smile is just as loving as a tear.”
While you shouldn’t feel guilty, it’s OK to feel sad and to acknowledge to yourself and to others that you miss your loved one.
Missing Holidays Past:
Memories and traditions are a big part of the holidays. If your current life circumstances aren’t the best, you may get stuck longing for the happier times in the past at the expense of the present.
Create new traditions. There are no hard rules for what your holiday should look like. If you’re worried that repeating an old tradition will make you sad, reinvent it for the present. No kids at home. Make that family cookie recipe for children stuck in the hospital.
And if it’s too difficult to stay where you are, give yourself permission to go somewhere that doesn’t hold any memories. Book a hotel in a town nearby or a city far away, plan a few activities, buy yourself a present and revel in the anonymity, suggests Rosenberg.
Ultimately, beating the holiday blues is about staying “true to who you are,” says Dr. Yeager. That may mean saying “yes” to parties and gathering, knowing that you can always leave if necessary. It means respecting your limits without succumbing to self-isolation. It means giving yourself credit for being as merry as you can. And, above all, it means recognizing and being grateful for all the little joys and moments of happiness in your life.
Last Updated: Mar 18, 2019